It’s hard finding someone you are interested in, but making them aware of your feelings is even harder.
There is nothing wrong with being single. You can live life on your terms, sleep in the middle of the bed, and do what you feel like.
At some point, you might want to spend your life with an awesome partner. You are ready to start a family and enjoy the benefits of a long-lasting relationship.
If you are reading this article, chances are you are ready to manifest love and attract your dream partner, but you haven’t had major success.
Today, I’ll be sharing with you six steps from my personal experience that will help you attract the person you desire.
Looking for ways to get a great partner? Try these six steps – trust me, it works without much effort.
1. Know That You Deserve Your Dream Partner
Write down at least 25 characteristics you want your ideal partner to have.
While some of your lists can be negotiable, few should be compulsory.
When you know what you want, the universe will send someone that reflects these qualities to you.
Be aware that you want to date someone who introduces you to their friends and loved ones.
Someone who loves kids as much as you do.
So today, I’m telling you that you deserve a life of joy and happiness. If you want to manifest the person of your dreams, you need to know that you deserve to be loved the way you want.
I want you to tell yourself, I deserve a great love
Tell yourself each time you look in the mirror. Shout it to your next-door neighbor when they walk past your front yard.
Because you do.
2. You Are Enough
Let go of the mentality that you’re not ‘good enough’ for the man/woman of your dreams.
It’s hard to manifest the right person in your life when in every relationship, you constantly think about heartbreak.
Even if you shift your energy toward positive things and you work on your thoughts, when your subconscious mind tells you that you aren’t good enough, you end up manifesting the wrong things.
Because you were manifesting from the point that you needed to fix and you weren’t good enough, you also tend to attract these kinds of people too.
I want you to know that even if you are single or you are not in your ideal relationship, you aren’t inadequate.
To manifest a healthy relationship, you need to shift your gears and start looking at it in this way: “I am enough and complete. I don’t need to be fixed.”
3. Stop paying attention to negativity
STOP listening to people who tell you, ‘When it comes to finding someone you want in your life……’, ‘Stop being unrealistic’.
The truth is, if you can see the ideal partner you want to take, you can call him/her into your life.
Instead, focus on people who give you positive vibes. Spend time with people who attract their dream partners and draw inspiration from them.
The most pain-free way to manifest anything you want is to stay genuinely happy for others and let go of negative emotions.
Just the way you clean out your room and take the garbage out, you should clean out old beliefs from your life.
Right now, all this fake information you’ve been fed in the name of being ‘realistic’ shouldn’t ruin your entire look at life.
Anything is possible, and that’s what I want you to believe.
Thankfully, you are reading this article and you are taking lessons from someone who has manifested their dream partner and is encouraging you that your relationship can be surreal and as romantic and passionate as you desire.
4. Do Things That Creates Positive Vibes
Here’s a secret:
Your ideal partner isn’t going to come to you faster if you sit around doing nothing. You need to enjoy your process and part of having fun is doing the things that bring a smile to your face.
Do things that help you create a positive vibe while you are waiting for that ideal person to be delivered.
Whatever creates positive vibes is going to be essential to manifest love in your niche. Do you know why? The universe wants to see you happy.
What can you do to feel good about calling in your dream partner? Is it watching an inspiring Netflix movie? Or taking a walk around the park to see healthy couples and get inspiration from them?
Do that today.
5. Get Specific on What You Want
I kid you not, if you get specific, the universe delivers.
The key is to create a board of your ideal partner. Include everything – what they look like, the dates you want to go with them, events you’ll attend, how your life would look together.
The magic happens when you take a few moments every day to visualize and see your ideal partner showing up in your life.
What do you want in a woman? If you hear a voice saying, ‘that’s unrealistic’, or any negative sentence, you tell it to get lost.
Here’s a fun exercise for you to do:
Grab a pen and paper right now, and write down 10-25 things you feel will make up your dream person.
If you want a guy with nice blonde hair, write it down. If you want a woman who is Brunette, grew up in New York, or whatever, just write it.
Use creative adjectives and don’t limit your imagination.
It’s super important for the next tip I will share with you.
6. Believe That the Universe Wants You to be Happy
Your only job when you tell the universe what you want is to prepare to receive it. When you get specific, the universe responds so fast.
Always believe that the universe is your genie and it wants you to be happy. If you are familiar with the law of attraction, you’ll realize that to attract things in life using your energy you need to feel good now, not when you get it.
When it comes to manifestation, one thing you should bear in mind is to, ‘act as if.’ This means that you should act as if you already have what you’re trying to manifest.
Remember that little task I gave you earlier?
Turn those sentences into statements and start with, “I am grateful to the universe for sending me…” and complete these affirmations using the list you just made.
“I am grateful to the universe for sending me my dream woman with blonde hair.”
To refresh, here are six tips you can take to manifest the partner of your dreams:
- Know the exact characteristics you want your ideal partner to possess.
- Let go of the mentality that you are not enough or you are not worth it.
- Don’t listen to negative thoughts and emotions.
- Be genuinely happy for people around you.
- Do the things that bring you peace, joy, and happiness.
- Believe that the universe works in your favour.